tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post935198727072628306..comments2023-10-21T02:22:20.517-07:00Comments on I Married a Moron – And Survived!: Triggers - Wish I Was Roy Rogers...Suzie Qhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16612983731357919856noreply@blogger.comBlogger33125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-24089537751834881762013-01-17T06:05:42.561-08:002013-01-17T06:05:42.561-08:00top [url=http://www.c-online-casino.co.uk/]uk bonu...top [url=http://www.c-online-casino.co.uk/]uk bonus casino[/url] check the latest [url=http://www.casinolasvegass.com/]online casinos[/url] manumitted no set aside perk at the chief [url=http://www.baywatchcasino.com/]www.baywatchcasino.com <br />[/url].Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-24031767422299616592010-12-05T12:03:56.516-08:002010-12-05T12:03:56.516-08:00Great post, I am almost 100% in agreement with you...Great post, I am almost 100% in agreement with youAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-17774705055696235342010-10-01T20:11:51.567-07:002010-10-01T20:11:51.567-07:00Oh, sometimes I don't feel that strong...
But ...Oh, sometimes I don't feel that strong...<br />But I gather my strength from various sources, the strongest one - being my daughter :)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-37512890763253952362010-10-01T20:11:30.407-07:002010-10-01T20:11:30.407-07:00Thank you, the backstory may help some....Thank you, the backstory may help some....Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-83374341495543386992010-10-01T20:11:29.914-07:002010-10-01T20:11:29.914-07:00Yes, learning to get rid of habitualities (is that...Yes, learning to get rid of habitualities (is that even a word??) is tough.... but can be done. Thanx for stopping by.Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-31851204832334428562010-10-01T20:11:29.480-07:002010-10-01T20:11:29.480-07:00Thank you, I will check into that at the library :...Thank you, I will check into that at the library :)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-8682618994120489422010-10-01T20:11:29.077-07:002010-10-01T20:11:29.077-07:00Yes I did, hear me roar!!!!
And SO will you!!! I a...Yes I did, hear me roar!!!!<br />And SO will you!!! I am here, if you ever need to talk...Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-64185059192229297682010-10-01T20:11:28.659-07:002010-10-01T20:11:28.659-07:00Well, I am vocal behind this anonymity, but feel m...Well, I am vocal behind this anonymity, but feel my story is important on many levels - but mostly to help others see the signs and that getting out and moving on is possible.Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-40810667112200556442010-10-01T20:11:28.157-07:002010-10-01T20:11:28.157-07:00I so appreciate you stopping by and reading. I thi...I so appreciate you stopping by and reading. I think that what most people fail to see, is that this is a MAN'S problem. (WHen dealing with the abuser being a male, obviously) If the men in this world not only fail to recognize but also fail to accept responsibility of this issue - then it will never be beaten. Pun intended.Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-90637396481912876052010-10-01T20:11:27.618-07:002010-10-01T20:11:27.618-07:00Thank you, that is very kind of you to say.Thank you, that is very kind of you to say.Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-27685752641997815622010-10-01T20:11:26.894-07:002010-10-01T20:11:26.894-07:00Yes, I am a winner aren't i :)Yes, I am a winner aren't i :)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-51517652754759362302010-10-01T20:11:26.474-07:002010-10-01T20:11:26.474-07:00Oh we all feel the moronic lashes be it through ve...Oh we all feel the moronic lashes be it through verbal, mental, physical or any other kind of abuse. The scars may be different, but it is proven the effects are the same. We are all survivors of our Morons, and we should all be proud.Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-51385885989187376372010-10-01T20:11:26.007-07:002010-10-01T20:11:26.007-07:00Thank you Sarah, that is very kind of you to say :...Thank you Sarah, that is very kind of you to say :) We all have our own struggles in our lives, our own crosses to bear. Forgiving oneself for allowing someone to do this to you is often the hardest part of all...Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-71117365404490803172010-10-01T20:11:25.549-07:002010-10-01T20:11:25.549-07:00Fighting and Winning I would like to think, Miss D...Fighting and Winning I would like to think, Miss Daisy ;)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-74600720871327816862010-10-01T20:11:25.091-07:002010-10-01T20:11:25.091-07:00One day at a time :)One day at a time :)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-86874839098476728142010-10-01T20:11:24.530-07:002010-10-01T20:11:24.530-07:00Wow, thank you for that great well thought out com...Wow, thank you for that great well thought out comment. ANd yes, life is a big learning experience, and forgiving oneself is often the hardest. I am a work in progress and feel I am quickly heading to the front of the class - with a few relapses :)<br />I was having a bad day, thanx for all of your support :) It means a lot to me :)Suzie Qhttp://imarriedamoronandsurvived.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-27285790864854085732010-09-08T08:59:50.530-07:002010-09-08T08:59:50.530-07:00I was just having a bad day, thanx for all of your...I was just having a bad day, thanx for all of your support :) It means a lot to me :)Suzie Qhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16612983731357919856noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-84938014053857701902010-09-07T20:16:12.086-07:002010-09-07T20:16:12.086-07:00Hi! I saw that you had found me via Blog Frog and ...Hi! I saw that you had found me via Blog Frog and I stopped by to meet you! I'm looking forward to reading further back in your blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-80227575941296956022010-09-07T20:16:09.675-07:002010-09-07T20:16:09.675-07:00Hi! I saw that you had found me via Blog Frog and ...Hi! I saw that you had found me via Blog Frog and I stopped by to meet you! I'm looking forward to reading further back in your blog!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-47875337745956749002010-09-05T10:15:57.600-07:002010-09-05T10:15:57.600-07:00Abusive relationships are more common than we supp...Abusive relationships are more common than we suppose; many people are afraid of showing problems, or worse yet don't they are in an abusive situation. Memories are something that can't be explained, triggers are psychological and depending on how bad things are only a professional would be able to help. As learn to face and deal with difficult situations we learn coping mechanisms and slowly, but surely, the wounds are not painful anymore. Sure we will feel the loss, or the have sequels that will forever be there. It's to say which is worst, physical or psychological wounds... I think they are one and only, one feeds the other--- Regardless of cause, the pain and fear, loneliness, lack of self worth, depression, they all feel the same it doesn't matter what caused them. I also have had my share of such situations, and if it helps some, I have learned is that first and foremost we need to learn to love ourselves, understand that we are of worth, no matter what anyone else might say or do! we are loved by our Father in Heaven, He is a father, we are his daughters, I am a daughter of God, and He loves me. As I understand that I become strong, and won't give anyone the chance to tell me different. From then on my task becomes less impossible, step by step, build on personal strengths, what are the things that bring joy and happiness? what can I do to make me stronger and self-sufficient, be it in temporal or spiritual or emotional ways? make a plan, stick to it until it becomes a habit. Do not allow patterns to be repeated; I have seen many intelligent women make so many dumb mistakes and repeat on relationships that clearly were self destructive; so we need to learn and understand why we do fall on this traps. Treat the disease and not the symptom. Work hard to avoid repeating the pattern...self esteem is paramount! In my experiences many times we fall because of our sheer lack of self esteem and fear of facing our problems. As I was able to understand that I am important and loved, I also understand that I'm not perfect as no one is, and as I have my shortcomings so do others, and we are all on the same boat, trying to survive! As I learn to see others for what they are, all little children trying to make it, each doing the best they know how I can also feel empathy and understand that I can forgive. It isn't until I was able to forgive and understand that I can't expect to get blood out of a turnip I learn that it was my fault, my bad choice that allowed me to be in this bad situation, I didnt heed the red flags, because they were there!! So I need to forgive myself too, sometimes it is harder than forgiving someone else, but forgive we must... if we want to move on, if we want to turn the page. In my experience, bitterness is the same as a cancer, a spiritual and emotional cancer, and it will eventually because a physical cancer. The memories will be there to haunt us ... but as time passes and we live a more meaningful life. The other thing that really help me is to help others, without sounding fake, because we care! It is soul cleansing. We feel energized, problems lose its weight, we are able to look at situations with a fresh and new perspective, we become able to see or find a solution to our own problem, we become better human beings!Ilona Katalinhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02377705894962258171noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-90451870973947865532010-08-31T21:22:32.384-07:002010-08-31T21:22:32.384-07:00Susie Q - I've read several of your posts and ...Susie Q - I've read several of your posts and I'm so glad you are out of your situation. I wish everyone could be as strong as you.Sweet Bee Cottagehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12621819781979605687noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-61822332737599833882010-08-31T18:37:10.701-07:002010-08-31T18:37:10.701-07:00Susie Q, Wow, do I wish I had the guts to be so vo...Susie Q, Wow, do I wish I had the guts to be so vocal about my moron. I cannot imagine what you went through with a child. Thank you so much for sharing your journey.<br /><br />Thanks for the follow on BlogFrog.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-42329954287823156972010-08-30T02:47:45.349-07:002010-08-30T02:47:45.349-07:00Good morning Suzie Q. I may be the only male respo...Good morning Suzie Q. I may be the only male responding but that is OK. I am happily married in NC and read through your blog and really am proud of you for opening up and working through the healing process. I have never lived the problem but have seen enough movies about the issue to feel compassion for you and your daughter. I welcome you to my blog anytime and it is filled with good stuff I think. You can find it at http://odielangley.blogspot.com and email is odie@qualityofficeequipmentinc.com Hope you and your daughter have an awesome week.<br />OdieAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00920831144240024660noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-57836644197522322372010-08-29T21:14:39.342-07:002010-08-29T21:14:39.342-07:00Thanks for following me on the blog frog. I am fol...Thanks for following me on the blog frog. I am following you there and here. It sounds like you've been through a lot. I have a lot of admiration for you.Just miss chttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03249276322837365487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2041944850107676483.post-12872216161392987592010-08-28T21:12:09.564-07:002010-08-28T21:12:09.564-07:00I know what it feels like... sometimes strong and ...I know what it feels like... sometimes strong and sometimes wobbly... sometimes with courageous thoughts and sometimes cowardly.....<br /><br /><br />You survived, that gives me a lot more positive hope.A Mother Alwayshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13061214919572800420noreply@blogger.com